To be cheerful we must go ahead in simplicity, not looking for satisfaction, either from people or from the things of this world. Think only of doing your duty well for the love of Jesus and don't think of anything else. If you are humble, you will have confidence in Him. He will do the rest.

(St. Mary Mazzarello in a letter to Sr. Giuseppina-Directress of Postulants, 1879)

May is a great month for Salesian feasts, and it is very important to reflect on the spirituality and goodness that Mary Mazzarello offers the Salesian family. Her letter to Sr Giuseppina sums up her amazing common sense: a call to cheerfulness with a good dash of simplicity! We can make the Christian life so over-complicated when the central message is so simple; Mary, like Don Bosco, grasped that simplicity: love God, love those around you, and do not forget to love yourself!

Born into a poor farming Mornese family in 1837, Mary decided to join the Daughters of Mary Immaculate when she was fifteen; the Daughters were founded by her parish priest, Fr Pestarino to perform good works in the parish. She seemed to be a popular member of the group, with children drawn to her gentle and self-giving nature. She was no stranger to a pandemic and, when a typhoid epidemic hit Mornese, she volunteered to nurse sick members of her family. Like our modern NHS heroes, Mary selflessly stepped up to the plate and offered practical support. Sadly, Mary developed typhoid and made a recovery that left her weak but able to identify with those who were sick and disadvantaged. As Don Bosco was working hard to bring a solid future for the working-class boys of Turin, so Mary felt called to offer hope to the girls of her own neighbourhood: the voice of God called to her, as she passed the village playground, 'I entrust them to your care!'

Like so many brave women of her generation, Mary saw that a good education was going to be the key to raise up the lives of poor working-class girls. Under the gentle care of her mentor, Fr Pestarino, Mary gathered the Daughters around her to begin a religious community of Sisters. This tiny seed planted in Mornese has grown into a global family. Don Bosco met with this infant community and saw that it would be an ideal fit for the founding of the Salesian Sisters. Mary had to face the chauvinism of her villagers who were hoping that Don Bosco was there to open a school for boys; her gentle patience and humour won out and Mornese became home to the first convent of the Institute of the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians. In 1872, Mary and her fourteen pioneering Sisters made their first vows—and history.

These women, guided by Mary Mazzarello enhanced the feminine dimension to Salesian spiritually that we can see with Jane Frances deChantel and Margaret Bosco. Above all, Mary was a 'mother' to her Sisters and the girls in their care and it is wonderful to think that FMA, to this day, still refer to her as 'Mother Mazzarello'. Her spirituality, grounded in kindness and common sense, continues to make an impact as the work of The Salesian Sisters continues to impress and encourage.

In my own ministry, I have been privileged to share ministry with the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians: I thank God for Sr Bruna, Sr Teresa, Sr Ann (a fellow Mayo native), Sr Marie Louise, Sr Pauline and countless other Sisters who have shared that dynamic care of Mother Mazzarello. To them all, we owe a deep thanks and an opportunity to reflect: in these difficult times, they offer us a unique insight into our need for space and time for contemplation. Don Bosco told us that he wanted his followers to be 'contemplatives in shirt sleeves'; as I well know, there is a danger in making the ACTION of our lives and ministry an end in itself. In the height of lockdown, we were told to 'stay at home to save lives.' Hopefully, even in those difficult days, we were able to capture something of the meditative spirit of Mary. The hours spent gazing out the Valponesca window, helped her to ground her ministry in the love of God. True contemplation allows us to live a Gospel life and reminds us of Jesus' own needed time away from his busy apostolate. As Don Bosco wrote to her:

Pray certainly, but do as much good as you can, especially to the young, and do all you can to prevent sin. (1864)

One of my favourite stories about Mother Mazzarello is the time when she brought her Sisters down to the kitchen during the 'great silence'; they had a rather strict convent chaplain who wanted 'peace and order'! Mary wanted to inject needed fun into the hard lives of these hard-working women and gave them treats on condition of 'not waking the chaplain!' Thank God for that sense of fun and deep pastoral care that needs to be more evident in the Church today. As the 'contemplative in action' Mary accompanied her Sisters, offering what support and encouragement that they needed. It was in Marseilles that she fell ill and made a long and tortuous journey back home to the simplicity of the convent at Nizza Monferrato—she died here on 14th May 1881, aged only forty-four years. Her vision and witness is celebrated today as we remember her; we offer our thanks and gratitude to the Daughters of Mary Help of Christians and wish them every happiness. St Mary Domenica Mazzarello stands with Don Bosco as a passionate advocate for young people. As we move forward, with increased hope, we would do well to listen to what our young people are telling us in schools, parishes, and youth centres across the land. FMA and SDB ministry is uniquely placed to hear that voice of the young, as we support them in building a future. With Mary We can all try to live the Gospel Way, as this Belgian Salesian Sister reminds us:

The saints are living Gospels. We can therefore pray through their life, we can let ourselves be touched by the Lord through the way in which Mary Domenica lived. (Sr Sandrine FMA).